fuffuster:

It’s funny how if you’re not straight, the assumption is always that you like men.

Like:

Bisexual male: YOU’RE SECRETLY JUST GAY AND WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MEN!

Bisexual female: YOU’RE JUST FAKING IT FOR MALE ATTENTION!

Gay male: YOU’RE ONLY GAY BECAUSE YOU DIDN’T HAVE A GOOD MALE ROLE MODEL IN YOUR LIFE!

Gay female: YOU’RE ONLY A LESBIAN BECAUSE YOU WERE HURT BY MEN IN THE PAST AND NOW YOU HATE THEM!

Like did it occur to you at any point that it’s not always about men?

(via lesbianed)

A lot of lgbt+ terms and sexualities are just nonexistent in korea, like pansexual or demisexual or asexual or lipstick or butch/femme. As I meet more koreans (and as my korean improves), I’ve been educating them on american queer culture. And how different it is from korean queer culture - which does exist.

I’m even helping someone figure out if she’s pansexual or bisexual (she’s leaning towards pansexual)

So my question is, how many toasters do I get for this?

mrsdallogay:

mrsdallogay:

my life got about a thousand times better once i stopped censoring myself

and by censoring i don’t mean i suddenly embraced indiscriminate swearing; i mean i stopped trying to sugarcoat my past or my feelings; i stopped lying by omission; i stopped having guilty pleasures; i began unabashedly enjoying whatever i liked; i became very honest; i cut out of my life poisonous people and negative ideals, and i am so, so much happier for it

(via mymindrebels)

Anonymous asked:

Koreans aren't skinny because of genetics. No matter how great your metabolism is if you eat tons of complete crap you'll gain weight. They're skinny because their portions are a fraction of peoples portions in the western world. Instead of eating a family bag of chips they eat a handful lol.

I’m pretty sure genetics play some part in it. It’s not nature vs. nurture, it’s a combination of both. Of course eating crap leads to weight gain, but I’ve noticed that Caucasian Americans tend to gain weight faster and keep it longer than Koreans. 

And the portion thing might just be because Koreans are also on a whole much, much smaller than Westerners. So you can’t expect them to eat the same proportions.

Although some of the korean girls here have really astonished me with the amount of food they can pack lol.